Toddlers are so sensitive and that’s why we are getting confuse when they starting tantrum. Their tantrums make us anxious as we don’t know why are they screaming, crying and being hyper. We are going confuse because we don’t know why toddlers do tantrum.
We are unable to handle their tantrum and that’s why our reactions as anger flush out.
Here is some guidance for how to handle toddler’s tantrum. Before knowing about tantrum, you should know why they are doing so.
What is tantrum behaviour??
The tantrum behaviour means an unpleasant, irritating and undisciplined behaviour.
This is the most common behaviour in toddlers (1 to 3 years) as their behaviour is unmanageable and uncontrollable.
Toddlers are doing crying, creaming and being hyper for no reason or they are being stubborn. In other word we don’t know why they are doing so.
How toddler’s tantrum affect us ??
Being parent, we always want to make them happy and comfortable.
Our children are most priority for us and toddlers are always taking attention from all of us, as they are so cute, funny and lovely.
But sometime this super special happy time going tough when they are doing tantrum.
Their cute angel looks suddenly disappear and turns into little cute monster. There are some benefits of doing tantrum but at that moment it is the most irritating and unpleasant situation as a parent.
They are doing screaming, crying, kicking to the floor and sometime throw whatever comes in hand.
We think that their tantrum is unreasonable. Whenever this happens their craziness make us angry, worried, confuse and many times embarrass.
We are getting anxious because we don’t know how to control their tantrum and how to deal with them.
We start shouting at them, many times slapped them to control behaviour.
But ever you think why are they doing so? What is the reason behind their hyper behaviour?
They are not doing this knowingly; they are not trying to feel you embarrassed.
So, the question is why are they doing tantrum?
Why toddlers do tantrum??
Toddlers are so sensitive not just physical but emotionally too. This age period is for growing physically, mentally, socially and most important emotionally.
This is very sensitive time for them as they are trying to learn expressions of their emotions; they are trying to develop their skills.
They are over loaded with so much feelings, feelings that they are not able to express.
They are so much curious and excited to experience new thing and when they feels disable to do so they are starting tantrum.
The other reason for their tantrum is not able to do what they want.
Many of the time they want to play outside or doing activity that they like. Where we stop them to do so. Then after their tantrum appears in extremely high level.
Even parents all efforts are worthless. They continuously hitting us and crying loudly.
Child’s stubbornness
Some times child develop behaviour just because of parent’s misunderstanding.
I’ve seen some times that after some minutes of child’s tantrum parents allow them what they are wanting. Then after child think that after doing some amount of tantrum my parent allows me whatever I want. And eventually their tantrum increases in time and doing both. They become stubborn after time passes.
So, the question is, Is there any solution for this situation?
And the answer is no and yes both. For that you shoud know that how to handle toddler’s tantrum.
Your child is a blank sheet of paper. You can easily develop their personality in such a beautiful way. The all you do is proper nurturing of your child.
After growing up their tantrum will go off. Because timely, they understood to express their emotions and to express their words. But if you miss out to teach them proper behaviour in a proper way may be the child become stubborn. After that you have to takes much more efforts to get rid of the improper behaviour.