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11 Best ways to boost confidence in child

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Parents always want their child to become confident. They always try so hard to boost children’s confidence, but somehow, they don’t get the result that they expect. Here I’m talking about the 11 best ways to boost confidence in child.

In a world full of chaos, confusion, and criticism, our children suffer from self-doubt and a lack of confidence. We parents are the first mentors in their lives, and can make progressive changes in their personality. Our small acts, and even words, can make or break them. That is the reason why we parents have to learn about parenting and how to make our children thrive.

What is confidence?

It is a simple question, but the answer is so deep. Confidence is the feeling or belief that one can have. Means it should flow from inside the person, and it happens only if one can have faith in oneself.

The belief of ‘I can do it’ instead of ‘I can’t’.  It is the first feeling where confidence can arise, and we have to work on that in such a way as to boost confidence in the child.

This is important for the healthy mindset of children, as we are the first admirers of our children. Our words become their

1 ) Let them make Mistakes

Let them make mistakes and don’t get upset about it because mistakes are the first step toward learning. Means that if someone does not try new things, there is no chance of making a mistake. One can only make mistakes if one tries something new.

Mistakes make them learn and also inspire them to grow out of their comfort zone, which leads them to growth and eventually boosts their confidence level.

Even the child psychologist suggests that if you find your child making mistakes, parents should not scold or punish them harshly. Now you may think about what parents should do afterward.

The simple answer is to tell them why not to do that act, for instance, that the act is harmful, not acceptable, or unethical. Make sure your voice tone must be gentle and firm. You can also warn them about future consiquences and the intesity of their action to set boundaries.

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"When a child believes in themselves, the world begins to believe in them too.”

2) Encourage them to try new things

Children always want to experience new things and experiment to learn, but many parents resist all the time without being aware of the outcome. The constant interruption and criticism dim their light. Your criticism directly affects their confidence level. There is no doubt that parents have concern for their child, but scaring them all the time and not allowing them to do anything is not quite fair.

Constant interruptions makes them timid.

Instead of encouraging them to do their experiment under your supervision, let them be encouraged to experience the world in their own way. They will learn new things and skills by knowing themselves, which boosts their confidence level. 

 

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3) Allow kids to fail

Failure is not a full stop; it’s a comma that allows you to continue what you want. Failure gives you the chance to step back and relearn things. It gives you the courage to start again and win. So, whenever you find your child is struggling with failure, show them a new perspective on failure.

Allow them to fail, as it gives them the courage to face any situation where they are never afraid of failure. It became a lifelong learning experience for them. And when you support them in their tough situation, they build up trust in you, and it reflects in their personality. There arises a confident child in front of you.

 

4) Celebrate efforts, not the outcome

While praising, we mostly make mistakes. We praise the final result instead of their efforts, which creates pressure on them to make themselves perfect. Initially, it looks good, but slowly the child feels lost and unconfident.

So, whenever you find your child doing better, praise their effort instead of the outcome. Praise their perseverance so they believe in themselves, which helps them to be confident. Praising in such a way makes them confident and a fast learner.

 

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5) Help kids find their passion

Children are smart learners, but it does not mean that they are good at all activities, and they are not all-rounders. They have their own ability, their own skill, do not force them to do all the activities that you want to teach them, instead help them to find out their passion, what they like, dislikes, and what makes them happy.

When they engage in their passionate field, they automatically thrive immensely. It all reflects on their personality and helps them boost their confidence level.

6) Teach them to set a goal

A goal is very important in everyone’s life. It is a necessity of our growth. But do you know at what age one should learn to set a goal? The Answer is as soon as one is able to learn.

Teach your child to set a goal and all aspects of the goal, which means how to set a goal, what your goal should look like, how to make it achievable, and how to put it in a timeframe. All the things about the goal that help them in their growth.  

7) Give them responsibility

Give them responsibility according to their age and their ability. But remember, do not be harsh on them.

First of all, make them comfortable and prepared with the chore that you want them to do, and then start to give them responsibility. Show them your trust so they start believing in themselves and take the responsibility without hesitation. They feel more confident when you put trust in them.

When you give them responsibility, you can see the confidence on their face when they complete a task. But remember, give them the task that they can do easily so that the task does not become a headache for your little one.

8) Embrace imperfections

No one is 100% in this world; all have flaws, and these imperfection makes a person unique.

Your child is also unique because they have their own strengths and flaws. So, remember that you do not have to make your child perfect, but have to accept their imperfections and guide them on how to accept their own imperfection.

It doesn’t mean that you never point out their mistakes, but putting too much pressure on them to make them perfect is not a good choice.

Then what should a parent do?

First, accept them with their imperfection. Do not create pressure on them by your words or gestures; appreciate their efforts, and encourage them to improve themselves without comparison with others. Your words should be fewer but still effective in such a way that your child doesn’t feel embarrassed or lonely.

9) Set them up for success

Well, what does it mean? When we first read this sentence, the question struck in our mind why we should set them up for success. The answer is that success can not be easily digestible. It is hard for many to stay focused after hitting success, and that is the reason to set them up for their success.

Allow them to fail, embrace imperfection, and set them up for success. These steps all help you boost their confidence.

10) Encourage them to express their feelings

When someone expresses their feelings, they feel relaxed. They learn the importance of sharing feelings, and that makes them emotionally stable and strong.

Along with that, they learn how peace of mind is important. And a relaxed and calm mind has the power to believe on oneself and can achieve whatever they want. These all boost their confidence.

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11) Your love is Magical

Your love for your child creates a magical effect on their growth and development. No matter what the age of your child, they are always a child at heart. Your attachment and engagement with your child make them feel secure.

Your child always needs your support and love. So, make sure to keep alive your special bond with your child. They started believing in themselves when they saw your unconditional love and support. They will not be afraid of doing any new task because you have sown the seeds of trust and bravery.  

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Final Thought

Our children are like soft clay in their growing years. Their brain develops almost 80% before they turn 5, but their cognitive mind is developing till their early 20s. We can shape them beutifully or brake them into pieces. I have read somewhere that it’s better to raise a healthy (emotionally) child instead of repairing a broken adult. 

Building personality, confidence, teaching emotional regulation is as important as academic scores, even I believe that those things are more important. That is the reason we parents have to focus on the other stuffs that matter most to the children. The broken soul can not be the happy soul.

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